Wednesday 16 September 2009

Try and Try, but For What?

I was saying to someone that for me, when I observe somebody's relationship with their other half, and when they have a dispute, that I'd normally side with the guy.

Why?

Because I'm a guy myself and if anything, I should look out for him.

I might not agree with the guy but most of the time, when the guy is wrong, all crumbles around him.

And I guess what I'm there to do is help him out of his rut.

But when the dust is settled and everything is hunky dory, is it really?

This not need to apply to relationships.

But also friendships.

Particularly with girls.

I use the word girls here because most of them aren't mature enough to be called women.

I know guys.

Some of them have gone through hell and back to please their other half,

Yet its not enough for them.

I know even girls who try hard with their girlfriends yet they all seem to fall short of their acceptance.

The world is always looking to crawl up someone's ass.

Some ones like it.

Some ones don't.

I really annoys me when I or other people (friends) have tried with other people yet they hit a brick wall.

Sometimes I wonder why even bother.

It's very un-Christian of me, of any Christian.

But even God hits a brick wall with some.

Sometimes I try so hard.

Yet I feel as though they don't see that I'm trying.

Or couldn't care if they notice or not.

PS. I Love You.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey. was refreshing to read this. i was thinking something similar last night. my guy friends are so much more loyal to me than about 90% of my girl friends. and i hate to mention that. i think girls get jealous easily, they're fickle, and insecure on top of that. i envy guys for having each other, and having real friendships. it's difficult to find a true girl friend.

Nora said...

a true girl friend and a true girlfriend.

Anonymous said...

sometimes i wish i could think like a boy, because i feel like they simplify things when girls complicate things...and make it more complicated than it really is...

-Stephanie