Wednesday 14 October 2009

Conflict of Friends.

I really hate it when a couple of friends are at loggerheads.

One hand is your friend.

The other is your friend.

Which one do you help?

Try as you might to extinguish the situation for them, how do you do it without appearing nosy?

In situations like these you shouldn't remain silent.....

For long anyway.

I think things are better said than not said.

No matter how bad they are to hear.

You should practice being honest with each other.

Otherwise you'll never know what your doing right and what your doing wrong.

It really gets in my nerves when people can be so belligerent towards one another.

I hold up my hands.

I can be like that myself.

But I won't show it.

Nor will I act on it.

But I will not be like that to them for long.

If someone hurts me, I can be angry for a bit, but I won't keep it stored.

Sometimes the best of relationships are ruined because of the hurt.

Why?

Nothing can hurt that bad can it?

The pain of it only lasts as long as you want it to.

You control how much someone can hurt you.

And you control how long the pain will linger on for.

I don't know about you but I try to be everyone's friend.

Even if I don't achieve that, then at least be civil with them.

It hurts me to hurt someone.

I don't like doing it.

So that's why at the end of the night...

Beginning of the new day..

All is forgotten.

To me, you don't have to say sorry.

PS. I Love You.