Admitting when your Wrong.

Before I start blogging the perils of wisdom that I normally regurgitate out of me, please note that this entry is in no way directed at anyone, but everyone. I guess there are people in my life that need to hear this more than others, but when you read it, choose to do whatever you like with it. 

I do not intend to offend, hurt or anything else negative.... 

So here goes....

If your reading this from Chinese eyes, you will know the silent treatment your parents give each other right?

And if your nasty, your probably giving the silent treatment to someone right now.

But I'm not sure if silence is always the best way to solve things.

Think, if there was no communication between the Allies and the Germans, will we still be in a World War situation?

And if we all kept quiet about the 'Credit Crunch', would we be out of it? Seems like every new headline, the economy gets worse and worse.

But sometimes I think silence is the best, however it shouldn't mean you sever the communication off completely.

Sometimes when you have hurt someone, and they aren't in the mood to speak to you, maybe its best if you give both yourselves time to digest the event.

Sometimes I think its best to say nothing at all.

Only you will know when its time to speak.

And you will know when its time to listen.

Whenever those times are, make sure these times do happen.

The longer you remain silent, the wounds get larger..

The longer you leave things sorted up, the more dust gathers on it. 

And if you think of dust as being of an amount of weight, and where you store your things is in a plastic bag which you carry about with you everywhere. 

Surgically attached.

That bag will burst at the seams. 

The longer the silence, the longer your pain hurts you.

Why drag it out?

Nothing is solved.

Talk to one another.

Be bold and courageous.

Make the first contact.

Be strong.

Either ways, try live life where you don't take any account of wrongdoings into the next day.

Forgive us our trespasses.

as I forgive those trespass against us.

I hate confrontation.

I hate the silent treatment.

Sort out your indifferencies between one another.

Don't store up anger.

PS. I Love You.