RE: "Just Friends" Aye Right!

Before you proceed to read this entry, please click here to read the blog entry which my entry is a response to.

Anyways........

Some of the content I'd have to question slightly but overall I do agree and can see the points the writer is saying. 

But overall women are just bloody hard work!

At times I think, all's fair in love and game.

And for girls, they like playing the game don't they?

I've sure as hell been involved in meaningless games.

To come out of it the loser.

But dignified. 

They like the feeling which the boy is giving the girl.

And I guess who can blame them.

But I think there's a point where the girls can get too far which is...

To depend on him, take him for granted, and then think of him as your wee brother.

I have had friendships, relationships which have turned out like that.

And although I haven't liked every one of them girls.

It does happen to half the world's population.

A guy loves being depended on, I'll admit that.

But the stop line has to be drawn at some point.

When the girl sees something they like, they ask if you could buy it for them.

I guess I do that too, but at the end of the day, I tend to do that out of annoyance and more than less the time, I end up buying it myself.

But the girls are bloody wise as anything and wait until the boy buys it for her.

Not necessarily but a lot of time it is.

They ask you who you fancy...

And if the person you fancy is the one asking you the question, what do you say?

Do you be honest? or make up someone?

Something else which kinda annoys me at times is when they ask you if you like what your wearing.

More than the time, I'll give them my honest answer.

But to then drag it into a 'meaningful' conversation on the part of the lady, I bloody hate.

To me, if you like what your wearing, what does it matter about my opinions and others?

Just get something on.

I don't care.

I guess I'm the rational type. 

Black and White.

Hair as well.

Girls love being complimented on their hairstyle. 

Ooh did you get a haircut?

May look nice, but for me, it wouldn't matter if it was just up, all over the place look or the good few pounds you spent doing it do.

And when you argue with them, and when the dust is settled, they'll continue to hate you forever.

For a guy, I think the thing is forgotten about.

It is for me anyways.

But for a girl, they may say its forgotten, but its not too forgotten because they'll want to use it against you for future gain, or spite.

For petty arguments, girls can really make a big deal out of it. And if you find yourself in that situation boy, I feel its best you leave them, let them be. 

I feel a lot of the time, the guys are the diplomatic ones in the relationship because girls only care about themselves.

They are the world champions in sulking.

I think for a guy, the relationship revolves around both parties.

But for a girl, the relationship revolves around her and what she gets from it.

Is that a fair point?

Anyways a friend said to me recently, if you like someone, don't beat about the bush. Tell him or her as soon as.

The more you hang out with him or her, the more they'll accept you as a friend.

And more time than none, the friend becomes a good friend and then that's it.

Pointless exercise in hanging out with them, and paying for meals, being on the end of their tantrums, doing little favors for him or her, fixing things and driving them places.

Well enough lady bashing.

At the end of the day, I still love them.

They're just bloody hard to figure out, but nothing is easy. And women are the most difficult thing to suss. You might have degrees in rocket science and accountancy, but no one has worked out what the hell a women is thinking. Every man out there is trying to work out the formula. But to no avail.....

PS. I Love You.